It’s been warm and wonderful and welcome weather here. For sea glass hunting, it couldn’t be better. I was out with a friend today and literally lost track of the time. It was fun to walk, talk, hunt and sit. We listened to words, the sea surf and it was a bit of adult hide and seek. My friend was new to the hunt and worried before catching her first if she’s catch any at all or go home “empty” without a fish or food from the line. But she caught plenty and had enough bounty to fill an already set aside place for her treasures. She enjoyed digging through rocks, putting hands to earth and plucking greens and browns and the blend in so well whites.
My brother and nephews and sister-in-law travled almost two hours to hunt the beach this weekend. Last week my dear friend and her husband came to hunt. I love that this place at the end of my street is a public attraction known about by those I love as well as those I have never met. People come for solitude or family time, to be out in the sun or away from busy minds and lives. People come to collect heart-shaped rocks or add to collections and everyone walks the same beach but not the same path.
Sea glass hunting has calmed and quieted my soul. I am fed and reached at the beach. Whatever parts of me feels clumsy or inept or socially awkward are washed away at the beach. For me, that’s how I imagine Catholic confession is for some, a place to come clean and to be re birthed in the same space. Some silent exchange happens and in short order the soul is revived. But there is no obligation or time table and what I contribute, besides an occasional beach cleaning isn’t so clear. What I get, is patience to parent better and perspective to be a bigger human. I get to drop small resentments like rocks being skipped and let larger questions float, tethered like boats to heavy anchors, but docked.
Anyhow, here are some photos of the treasures and a few at the end of the jewelry some pieces become.
This photo shows the range of sizes and colors and textures which can be found in a day.
Sometimes I like “chunky funky” pieces which are not completely soft. Some would consider these beach glass and not sea glass because not all three sides are sufficiently weathered. For jewelry though, I sometimes like the look that angles and edges bring. As with people, angular and edgy can be provocative and that can be positive or negative depending on your mood or taste. Here’s a piece of jewelry from the piece on the right.
This is from that same hunt and again, it’s not a piece everyone would want to wear. It is a large and chunky piece of dark green.
These next two photos show the two-sides pendant I made for someone special. I love it because each side is unique and a stand-alone piece and each side uses the same wire but holds the glass in different ways and because the glass colors are different the same bead at the top doesn’t even look the same. FUN!!!
Finally, I had so much fun taking this brown piece of glass, which is a common color, and making a delicate but strong piece of jewelry (again for someone special) who is a one-of-a-kind soul
Catch of the Day:Bounty, not mine alone, but enough to go around. This time last year I was struggling and feeling possessive about “my sea glass hunting” as though I owned the right to be passionate and people I introduced to the beach and the sea glass collecting and jewelry making couldn’t have their OWN feelings and passion too. I’ve learned a lot in a year about myself and what’s most important, what I like about myself as a friend and what I need to change. I know I need to be honest in my relationships and when I am resentments and conflicts turn into chances for transformation. And when there’s not room for true conversation, there’s no room for real change. I’ve quit too early and I’ve stayed too long. Finding balance is what I’m still figuring out.